Reflections on the Purple Ribbon Breakfast: Community, Courage, and Change
On April 23rd, I had the privilege of serving as a keynote speaker at Alternatives to Violence’s 7th annual Purple Ribbon Breakfast. The event, held at the Embassy Suites Conference Center, was filled with warmth, compassion, and unwavering support for survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking.
Walking into that room, it was clear this was more than a fundraiser—it was a testament to what happens when a community shows up with purpose. The event included powerful moments of education and reflection, like the interactive red vs. green flag activity led by ATV’s team. Watching the crowd participate, I could see just how committed people were to learning more about healthy relationships and how to recognize warning signs.
When I took the stage, I shared my personal journey as a survivor and advocate. It’s never easy to stand in front of a room full of people and open up about such vulnerable parts of my life, but I’ve learned that vulnerability is often where change begins. My message centered on the reality that surviving isn’t a singular moment—it’s a series of choices we have to make again and again. I spoke about the ongoing battle for justice that so many survivors face, long after the immediate threat is gone.
Hearing from Erica Bethel, founder of Joy & Justice, was equally impactful. Her story of surviving domestic violence was a heart-wrenching reminder of the stakes involved in this work. It also showed the power of courage. I felt so grateful to stand alongside her.
I want to thank Alternatives to Violence for giving me the opportunity to be part of such a meaningful event. Their leadership, advocacy, and direct support for survivors are vital, and it was a privilege to help amplify that mission. Thank you as well to everyone who attended, donated, and participated in the experience. Events like this remind me that healing doesn’t happen in isolation—it happens when people come together and choose to care.
If you’re ever looking for a way to make a real difference in the lives of survivors, attending community events like this one is a great place to start. You don’t have to have all the answers. Sometimes, just showing up is enough to change someone’s life.
